How To See Who’s Been Talking To Your Child Online
If your computer uses MS Internet Explorer, you can check the browser history by pressing the “control” button and the “H” at the same time (CTRL+H). This will show all the websites that the computer has visited, arranged by date. You can click on each website link to see what pages in the website were visited, and then you can visit those pages.
This list below is for parents and children, and shows ‘short hand’ texting and online abbreviations. Please be aware of some of the phrases and codes used. Sexual Predators are well aware of these codes and regulary use them. Some you will know, others you may not. Keep one step ahead.
Most online paedophiles are sneaky and cunning. They’ll wait until they’re sure that your child is alone. some paedophiles will “groom” a child for months before they initiate sexual advances.
* AoA: Short for “age of attraction” meaning the age groups of children they are attracted to
* MAA: Minor attracted adult (used in reverse of the word “paedophile”, though it is the same and places the child as responsible for the abuse)
* AoC: Age of (legal) consent
* CL: ChildLover/paedophile
* GL: Girl Lover/Attracted to girls
* BL: BoyLover/Attracted to boys
* YF: Young Friend, used when speaking about a victim
* CP: Child Porn (Which could mean anything from photos of naked or half-naked children to photos of actual child rape/torture)
* LG: Little Girl
* LB: Little Boy
* GM: Girl Moment – which is time spent with a young girl (that can either be a passing second consisting of nothing more than a glance or a smile, or a lengthy visit with a girl)
* BM: Boy Moment – same as Girl Moment
Then there are the chats, or message boards:
* CG: known as Common Ground, a place for paedophiles of both preferences. Common ground, while being the one that touts of being for “all” paedophiles is less used than either of the other forums:
* GC: GirlChat- for those that favour victimizing girls
* BC: BoyChat- for those that favour victimizing boys
* PP: Paedo Parent – to identify that they have their own children
* LGF: Little Girl Friend – referring to girl victims
* LBF: Little Boy Friend – referring to boy victims
^5 = High Five 121 = One to one 143 = I love you 182 = I hate you 2moro = Tomorrow 2nite = Tonight 411 = Information 420 = Marijuana 459 = I love you 4NR = Foreigner 4Q = Fuck you 8 = oral sex 86 = Get rid of 9 = Parent is watching 99 = Parent is no longer watching
A3 = Anyplace, anytime anywhere AAF = As A Friend ACORN = A Completely Obsessive Really Nutty Person ADR = Address AEAP = As Early As Possible AFAP = As Far As Possible AIGHT = Allright AITR = Adult In The Room AMAP = As Much As Possible AML = All My Love AMRMTYFTS = All my roommates thank you for the show A/S/L – age, sex, location
B4N = Bye for now banana = Penis BF = Boyfriend BFF = Best friend forever BITCH = Basically in the clear homey BJ = Blow job BOB = Battery Operated Boyfriend BZ = Busy BRB = Be right back BTW = Back to work
CICYHW = Can I copy your homework CM = Call me C-P = Sleepy C/S = Change subject COS = Change of subject CBJ = Covered blow job CD9 = Code 9, parents are around CRB = Come right back CRBT = Crying really big tears CT = Can’t talk CTC = Care to chat? CU = See you CUL8R = See you later CUNS = See you in school CUOL = See you online CYE = Check your e-mail CYO = See you online CYT = See you tomorrow
DF = Dear friend DGA = Don’t go anywhere DH = Dear husband DW = Dear wife DIKU = Do I know you? DL = Down Low (texts) Download (in context of attachments) DLTM = Don’t lie to me DNBL8 = Do not be late DOC = Drug of choice DOE = Depends on experience DP = Domestic partner DUM = Do you masturbate? DURS = Damn you are sexy DUSL = Do you scream loud? DWB = Don’t write back DWPKOTL = Deep wet passionate kiss on the lips DYHAB = Do you have a boyfriend DYHAG = Do you have a girlfriend
EMA = E-mail address EML = E-mail me later EMSG = E-mail message
F2F = Face to face FAB = Features Attributes Benefits FB = Fuck buddy FILF = Father I’d like to fuck FMLTWIA = Fuck me like the whore I am FMUTA = Fuck me up the ass FOAF = Friend of a friend
FTF = Face to face FWB = Friends with benefits FYF = From your friend
GTG = Got to go G2G = Got to go GAP = Got a pic? (pic = picture) GBH = Great Big Hug GF = Girlfriend GLBT = Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgender GLG = Good looking girl GLB = Good looking boy GNOC = Get naked on cam GOS = Gay or straight GUD = Geographically undesirable GYPO – get your pants off
H&K = Hugs and kisses H4Y = Hot for you HBIB = Hot but inappropriate boy
I&I = Intercourse and Inebriation IBTC = Itty bitty titty committee IDK = I don’t know IF/IB = In the front or in the back IIT = Is it tight? ILF/MD = I love female/male dominance ILU = I love you ILY = I love you IRL = In real life IWSN – i want sex now ITS – intense text sex IWALU = I will always love you
J/O = Jacking off
KFU = kisses for you KFY = Kiss for you K4Y = Kiss for you kitty = Vagina KK = Kiss kiss KOTC = Kiss on the cheek KOTL = Kiss on the lips KPC – keep parents clueless KWSTA = Kiss with serious tongue action
L8R = Later LB? = Like bondage? LDR = Long distance relationship LF = Let’s fuck (pedophile lingo would be Little Friend) LHOS – Let’s have online sex LHSO = Let’s have sex online LKITR = Little kid in the room LOL = Laugh out loud/lots of laughs/lots of love LMAO = Laugh my ass off LMFAO = Laugh my f*cking ass off LMIRL – Let’s meet in real life LTTIC = Look the teacher is coming LUSM = Love you so much LY = Love you LY4E = Love you forever LYWAMH = Love you with all my heart
MA = Mature audience MILF = Mother I’d like to fuck MIRL = Meet in real life MorF = Male or Female MOOS = Member of opposite sex MOSS = Member of same sex MOS = Mom over shoulder MPFB = My personal fuck buddy MSNUW = Mini-skirt no underwear MTLA = My true love always MUAH or MWAH = *it’s the sound of a kiss* MUSM = Miss you so much
NP = Nosy parents N/T = No text NIFOC = Nude in front of computer NRN = No reply necessary
OLL = Online love OMG = Oh my god OMFG = Oh my fucking god
P = Partner P&C = Private and confidential POS = Parents over shoulder PIR = Parents in room P911 = Parent alert PA = Parent alert PAW = Parents are watching PAL = Parents are listening PBB = Parent behind back PHAT = Pretty hot and tempting PLOS = Parent looking over shoulder POM = Parent over my shoulder PRON = Porn pr0n = Porn (with a number 0 for O) PRW = Parents are watching
QT = Cutie Q2C = Quick to cum
RL = Real life RLF = Real life friend RNN = Reply not necessary ROFL = Roll on floor laughing ROTFL = Roll on the floor laughing ROFLMAO = Roll on floor laughing my ass off RPG = Roll playing games RU? = Are you? RU/18 = Are you over 18?
STFU = Shut the fuck up
TTYL = Talk to you later TTFN = Tata for now TAW = Teachers are watching TDTM = Talk dirty to me TM = Trust Me TMI = Too much information TT = Big tease TYVM = Thank you very much
U = You U UP? = Are you up? UR = You are or Your
WTF = What the fuck WYFM = Will you fuck me? WYRN = What’s your real name WYCM = Will you call me
XOX = Kiss Hug Kiss XTC = Ecstacy
Y = Yes or Why? YDKM = You don’t know me YIWGP = Yes, I will go private YW = You’re welcome
Behavioral Red Flags
If your child spends a lot of time online, more than an hour a day, chatting rather than talking with friends on the phone or spending time with friends in person, be concerned.
This is a sign that they’re being “groomed” (seduced) by an internet predator.
If your child closes websites or screens when you walk by, be concerned. If your child clears the web browser’s history, be concerned.
If your child appears to be doing something suspicious, they are doing something suspicious. This is true in all parenting situations but is especially pertinent concerning the internet.
If your child has a webcam on their computer in their room or sends pictures of themselves over the internet, be concerned.
If your child makes “friends” online you never meet, you should be concerned what kinds of friends they are. In addition, never let a child meet in person a “friend” they met online.
How To Limit Paedophiles’ Access to Your Child
It can’t be said often enough: computers with internet access should be in well-travelled rooms of the house, like the living room or the kitchen. That way, you can see what your child is doing, and they know it.
If your child has a computer in their bedroom for homework, keep a central router for internet access in a location where it’s easy to pull the plug at night. Paedophiles, like vampires, prefer the dark.
Limiting computer time reduces the risk your child will waste valuable computer hours chatting with strangers.
No webcams, and hide the digital camera where your kids can’t find it. Paedophiles love to see who they’re chatting with and encourage children to send indecent photos of themselves. They will share those pictures with other paedophiles, too.